Does the assisted living quote match the contract?

You have a room quote, a care estimate and an admission packet. They are not necessarily the same promise. Your job before signing is to make the papers agree.

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Ask the facility to email you a complete, unsigned packet. You want enough time to compare documents away from the tour. If someone says a charge, service or exception cannot be shown in writing, leave it out of your budget.

Who pays

Start by naming the payer for each line item. Write private funds, long-term care insurance, Medicaid or another identified program beside every expected charge. Do not write Medicare beside room, meals or ongoing personal assistance merely because the building uses the word care. Medicare coverage depends on the benefit and eligibility rules, not the facility's description of its services. The public payer references are collected on the Sources page.

Ask the business office by phone: "Do you accept the payer we expect to use, for this resident and this level of service? Which charges would that payer not cover?" Then request the answer in writing. Acceptance of a payer does not establish that your particular stay or service qualifies.

If long-term care insurance may pay, compare the contract's service descriptions with the policy's covered settings and benefit triggers. The facility can describe what it provides. The insurer decides whether the claim meets the policy. Ask the insurer which proof it requires before treating the facility quote as reimbursement.

The papers

Build one comparison sheet with four columns: quoted item, contract section, amount or calculation method, and unanswered question. Match these documents line by line:

1. The written quote or proposal. Identify the room charge, care charge, deposits, community or admission fees, optional services and every stated discount. Mark whether each figure is fixed, estimated or subject to assessment.

2. The admission agreement. Missouri DHSS says the agreement is important in defining the resident's rights and obligations and should identify what the daily rate includes and excludes. DHSS also says residents must receive written information about available services and related charges, including charges outside the basic rate or public programs. You can find the agency material through the source directory.

3. The current fee schedule. Ask whether it is incorporated into the agreement. Check charges for medication help, bathing, dressing, escorts, laundry, transportation, supplies, meals delivered to the room, incontinence assistance and additional staff time. Do not assume a service mentioned during the tour is included.

4. The assessment and individualized service plan. Missouri assisted living rules use a pre-admission screening and require services to be documented in a written agreement or service plan. The state assessment form is MO 580-2835, unless DHSS has approved another form for the facility. Ask for the completed assessment and the resulting service plan before you accept the care-level charge.

5. Any special care disclosure. If the resident will enter an Alzheimer's special care program or unit, ask for the Alzheimer's Special Care Services Disclosure, form MO 580-2637. Compare its admission, transfer, discharge, staffing, activities, safety and additional-fee descriptions with the admission agreement. DHSS lists these forms in its long-term care materials, indexed on the Sources page.

6. The resident handbook and incorporated policies. Look for clauses saying that another policy, schedule or handbook is part of the contract. If the agreement binds you to it, obtain the version that will apply at signing.

The runway

Call the administrator or business office with the packet open. Ask these questions and write the person's name beside each answer:

"What event moves the resident to a higher care level? Who makes that assessment, and where is the calculation written?"

"How much notice is given before a rate or fee schedule changes? Does the notice rule appear in the agreement?"

"Which services in the care plan are included today, and which produce a separate charge?"

"What is refundable if the resident never moves in, leaves voluntarily, is hospitalized or is told the facility can no longer meet the resident's needs?"

"When does billing stop, and what notice must the resident give?"

"What happens to the room during a hospital or rehabilitation stay? Where is the bed-hold policy?"

"If Medicaid may be needed later, is this facility Medicaid-certified, and could the resident remain here if eligibility is approved? What conditions or availability limits apply?"

Do not calculate the runway from the opening quote alone. Use the contract's recurring charges, the assessed care level and clearly identified extras. Run a second version using the next care level. For a broader worksheet approach, use Start Here: The Order to Read.

Keep the advertisement, quote, emails, completed assessment, signed agreement, fee schedule and every later rate notice in one folder. After signing, request a fully executed copy with all exhibits and initials. A blank exhibit is not a usable record.

Free help

The Missouri Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program can explain resident rights, help you frame questions and address concerns involving a long-term care facility. Your Area Agency on Aging can also direct you to local options. Start with Local Help With Paying for Care.

Stop and send the papers to a Missouri lawyer before signing if you are being asked to accept personal liability, waive court rights, agree to arbitration you do not understand, authorize broad access to assets, or sign for a resident whose legal authority is unclear. The facility can explain its form. It should not decide what the form legally means for you.